Mind the Gap: Perceived Partner Responsiveness as a Bridge between General and Partner-Specific Attachment Security
Abstract
:1. Introduction
2. Overview of Attachment Theory
3. Perceived Partner Responsiveness and Attachment Needs
4. Current Study
5. Method
5.1. Participants
5.2. Procedures
5.3. Measures
5.4. Analytic Strategy
6. Results
6.1. Preliminary Analyses
6.2. Exploratory Analyses
7. Discussion
Limitations and Future Directions
8. Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Conflicts of Interest
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Variable | Mean (SD) | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1.84 (1.00) | -- | ||||
| 1.95 (0.83) | 0.30 * | -- | |||
| 2.95 (1.40) | 0.46 * | 0.13 * | -- | ||
| 3.44 (1.29) | 0.07 | 0.38 * | 0.25 * | -- | |
| 6.33 (0.85) | −0.18 * | −0.34 * | −0.10 * | −0.14 * | -- |
| 6.46 (0.63) | −0.29 * | −0.15 * | −0.13 * | −0.01 | 0.33 * |
Model 1: | Model 2: | Model 3: | Model 4: | |||||||||
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Partner-Specific | Partner-Specific | General | General | |||||||||
Attachment Anxiety | Attachment Avoidance | Attachment Anxiety | Attachment Avoidance | |||||||||
Coefficient (SE) | t | Coefficient (SE) | t | Coefficient (SE) | t | Coefficient (SE) | t | |||||
Intercept | 4.01 * | (0.59) | 6.81 | 3.85 * | (0.47) | 8.19 | 3.37 * | (0.63) | 5.37 | 3.10 * | (0.60) | 5.16 |
Dyad | 0.00 | (0.00) | −1.05 | 0.00 | (0.00) | −0.61 | 0.00 | (0.00) | −0.18 | 0.00 | (0.00) | −0.87 |
Age | −0.01 * | (0.00) | −2.28 | 0.00 | (0.00) | 0.51 | −0.02 * | (0.01) | −2.79 | 0.01 | (0.01) | 1.36 |
a Sex | 0.23 * | (0.08) | 2.94 | −0.30 * | (0.07) | −4.26 | 0.68 * | (0.13) | 5.41 | −0.72 * | (0.11) | −6.32 |
b Sample | −0.22 * | (0.08) | −2.79 | −0.09 | (0.08) | −1.10 | 0.00 | (0.13) | 0.03 | −0.04 | (0.12) | −0.38 |
Partner-specific anxiety | - | - | - | 0.15 | (0.04) | 3.26 | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Partner-specific avoidance | 0.20 | (0.06) | 3.17 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
General anxiety | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | 0.26 * | (0.05) | 5.18 |
General avoidance | - | - | - | - | - | - | −0.30 * | (0.05) | 6.00 | - | - | |
PPR | −0.38 * | (0.08) | −4.65 | −0.32 * | (0.06) | −5.09 | −0.21 * | (0.09) | −2.42 | −0.04 | (0.08) | −0.44 |
Model 1: | Model 2: | |||||
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Partner-Specific | Partner-Specific | |||||
Attachment Anxiety | Attachment Avoidance | |||||
Coefficient (SE) | t | Coefficient (SE) | t | |||
Intercept | 1.61 * | (0.15) | 10.81 | 1.76 * | (0.14) | 12.49 |
Dyad | 0.00 | (0.00) | −0.92 | 0.00 | (0.00) | −0.18 |
Age | −0.01 | (0.00) | −1.66 | 0.00 | (0.00) | 0.37 |
a Sex | 0.09 | (0.07) | 1.22 | −0.19 * | (0.07) | −2.89 |
b Sample | −0.21 * | (0.07) | −2.94 | −0.08 | (0.07) | −1.06 |
Partner-specific anxiety | - | - | - | 0.14 * | (0.04) | 3.30 |
Partner-specific avoidance | 0.19 * | (0.06) | 3.19 | - | - | - |
PPR | −0.31 * | (0.05) | −6.22 | −0.29 * | (0.06) | −5.17 |
General anxiety | 0.26 * | (0.03) | 8.15 | - | - | - |
General anxiety × PPR | −0.14 * | (0.03) | −5.35 | - | - | - |
General avoidance | - | - | - | 0.19 * | (0.03) | 6.89 |
General avoidance × PPR | - | - | - | −0.06 * | (0.03) | −1.96 |
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Rice, T.M.; Kumashiro, M.; Arriaga, X.B. Mind the Gap: Perceived Partner Responsiveness as a Bridge between General and Partner-Specific Attachment Security. Int. J. Environ. Res. Public Health 2020, 17, 7178. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph17197178
Rice TM, Kumashiro M, Arriaga XB. Mind the Gap: Perceived Partner Responsiveness as a Bridge between General and Partner-Specific Attachment Security. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. 2020; 17(19):7178. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph17197178
Chicago/Turabian StyleRice, TeKisha M., Madoka Kumashiro, and Ximena B. Arriaga. 2020. "Mind the Gap: Perceived Partner Responsiveness as a Bridge between General and Partner-Specific Attachment Security" International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health 17, no. 19: 7178. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph17197178
APA StyleRice, T. M., Kumashiro, M., & Arriaga, X. B. (2020). Mind the Gap: Perceived Partner Responsiveness as a Bridge between General and Partner-Specific Attachment Security. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 17(19), 7178. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph17197178