A Miseducation: Perspectives on Sexuality Education from Black Women in the US South
Abstract
:1. Introduction
2. Materials and Methods
2.1. Positionality
2.2. Study Data
2.3. Analysis
3. Results
3.1. Participant Characteristics
3.2. Findings
“So, I would say Black girls tend to be sexualized at a young age. I remember wanting to dance […] I wasn’t trying to be sexual […] I learned from a young age that people saw me in a sexual light, […] it just always felt like it was a lot of shame that I didn’t have any control over. So, it was very hard for me to identify with myself sexually in a way where I wasn’t feeling like I was sinning. It was just a lot of shame in that period, and guilt.”(NC, 18–49)
“ […] I do believe in the African American culture, we all have heard when someone is saying “don’t do this”, and you’d be like, “why?” “Because I said so.” That’s all well and good. But, […] You have to be honest, you have to be willing to create that space for those questions to happen and just talk about it.”(NC, 18–49)
“Not so much of what I wish they told me […] I think it would be more of an open space to be comfortable to ask those different questions for clarity. A lot of times when we go into the classrooms you’re getting told this, this, and this and okay that’s it, cool. You’re not comfortable enough or you don’t have that space to say, okay, so what is, where does, or how does, things like that.”(NC, 18–49)
“At the middle school I went to, […] they pulled all the girls aside and had them make vows of chastity. And I have to say, I was so thankful for my health teacher because, […] most likely, a lot of the stuff that she did in that classroom, she was not supposed to do. I would bet money that she was not supposed to teach us how to use a condom and show us on a banana how you put a condom on and teach all the things that she taught us, but she did anyway.”(GA, 25–49)
“The way that I learned about most of the reproductive stuff—I was in school in Georgia. […] But the other stuff, like all of that heavy stuff and emotion stuff and consent stuff and all those things, I didn’t have any of those tools, and nobody gave me any of those tools, and I’m 34 years old now and I’m still trying to navigate that stuff.”(GA, 25–49)
“And not that I want to take responsibility away from people who did me wrong […] However, I also take responsibility for myself because I know that there was something I didn’t have. I didn’t have the tools for that. I didn’t know how to navigate that situation. I didn’t understand my worth. I didn’t know how to set expectations in a relationship. I didn’t understand basic emotional requirements of a relationship. I just didn’t know—I didn’t know how to do that […] because nobody told me what my rights were. Nobody explained to me that I really only have to be responsible to myself—that I don’t owe anybody anything, and that nobody owes me anything.”(GA, 25–49)
“From the Black women that I’m around now, we’re still figuring it out or realizing we didn’t have it figured out. Especially me and my friend group now, it’s like what we thought was sex really isn’t sex and what we thought was normal—even just relationships and we talked about all of that stuff … even aunts and cousins who are in their 40s, 50s, like they are still figuring it out.”(GA, 18–24)
“I’m 47 and I’m still trying to navigate and really unlearn some of the things that I learned that were absolutely false.”(GA, 25–49)
“When I was like 9 or 10, I checked out this book from the library. […], and that’s really when I learned about like menstrual periods and how pregnancy happens. And that was like the knowledge I rolled with until I was about like 20-something when I really learned more about the clitoris and this and that […], so basically I was a grown adult before I really, really knew how sex happened. And even the more specific stuff about pregnancy, like I kind of knew the basics, but I didn’t know like oh, you really mainly get pregnant during ovulation, […]. I didn’t really know that until I was maybe like 25.”(GA, 18–49)
“[…] I thought sex was something that happened to women. Like, most women don’t want to have sex, but you got a boyfriend or you got a husband. Sex is part of the package. It is what it is. It’s not really something for you. It’s something for them […]”(NC, 18–24)
“… And just thinking about […] the way that my mom cared about people is like she will let people stay with us in our house because they’re in need or she’ll give her shirt off her back or borrow people money. And so, what I learned about intimate relationships is that you sacrifice yourself for them and that you take care of people and the reason why you’re with people is because they need you […]”(GA, 18–49)
“I got to college and I was like, Oh, […] This is actually how I’m supposed to experience this, and I didn’t know that. I also didn’t know that I have some agency in this. Actually, you know like, it’s kind of lit.”(NC, 18–24)
“You always have the power to say no—like not just in sexual situations but in any aspect along the way. Consent shows up in so many different ways and […] because you are an autonomous person you always have the chance to say no, and […] at the end of the day—as long as you feel happy and secure in the spaces that you’re in, you don’t have to compromise that to be wanted by somebody else […]”(GA, 18–24)
“I wish somebody would’ve told me pleasure is abundant. You can get it from a lot of different places. I was similar to that too, thinking I’m not going to find this nowhere else [….] I wanted to keep a firm grip on this thing that I found that I never had before, because I don’t think that I’m going to get it back. And that’s not true. It’s not true.”(NC, 18–24)
“[…] It’s [sex] something that you only have with one person and you all just do it in this one position forever and that’s it. […] like as long as the one person, i.e., my husband, is happy. Good. That’s it, […] Now I look at sex as such a freeing thing […]”(NC, 18–49)
“…So, my view on relationships have to be based off of me now. I have to make that decision. I have to determine whether—hey. Is this person really fit, a good you know lifestyle for me to even put myself out there? And that’s how I am now.”(GA, 18–49)
“[…] I’m not going to get pleasure out of this if we don’t talk about it. And so for me it’s just having that conversation […]”(GA, 18–24)
“But so it was really weird for me to—like this journey that I’ve been on with my body since I was 9 years old of really feeling connected and inhabiting my body, not just like something that feels so disconnected from my being and I think like this is probably the first time in my life, for real, that I’m just fully connected and feel at home in my body even though it’s changing because […] it’s just like the last few years have just been really weird, […]—got diagnosed with PCOS like three years ago, and so I’ve had to relearn my body and that’s been—it feels like every five years I have to learn something new about my body to become comfortable with it and then it’s like every time I get comfortable with it something else changes”(GA, 18–24)
“[…] I don’t want this to be generational. I don’t want this to be her experience. […]. I want her to know her body. I want to talk about orgasms and tell her how exciting when she finds the right situation it’s going to be […], not look at sex as a bad thing. If sex is a bad thing, now why would you have me.”(GA, 25–49)
“[…] no one taught me anything. I worked at a library, I had to go look this stuff up myself, which is why, I promise you I have sons and I’m so glad because then there’s no way, how am I going to explain something to a daughter? I don’t even know. Like, I mean now I’m an adult, but there was no conversation. No conversation.”(GA, 18–49)
“With my son, I have a three-year-old, he has a penis, he doesn’t have a pee pee, […] we have to talk about it because if we’re not talking, it’s just going to keep going generation to generation.”(NC, 18–49)
“Things that I wanted them [the next generation] to know is just be confident and comfortable with their body knowing that all the things that your body does, I think, is really important […]”(GA, 18–49)
“I’m very grateful because I have two daughters and a son whose awareness of their sexuality and who they are and how they are in their confidence is decades beyond where I was at 20 and 18 and 15. Like their confidence in who they are, their sexuality, their understanding. They ask me anything. And there’s been things they’ve asked me and they’ve shown me and told me, especially like the understanding with the generation now, talking about LGBTQIA and how this works and how that works.”(GA, 25–49)
“And so, I talk to my kids now. I tell them everything. My children are 4 and 8 and they know everything. Any questions that they have, I answer all of them clearly, using anatomical charts. You are the master of your own body. I don’t even have a right to touch you in a way that you don’t want to be touched because that’s everything—because I was taught that I didn’t matter. I was taught that my feelings should be minimized and that I was for the pleasure and consumption of other people, and that was my pertinence, and that’s what I learned. And that’s what I’m still trying to unlearn.”(GA, 25–49)
4. Discussion
Policy Implications
5. Conclusions
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Acknowledgments
Conflicts of Interest
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Characteristics | Number (49) * | Percent (%) |
---|---|---|
State | ||
Georgia | 29 | |
North Carolina | 20 | |
Age | ||
Median (range) | 27 (18–47) | |
Education | ||
High School, Associate’s degree, trade, other | 7 | 35 |
Bachelor’s degree | 20 | 41 |
Graduate school or higher | 9 | 18 |
Reproductive health history | ||
Ever pregnant | 7 | 55 |
Never pregnant | 9 | 39 |
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Astatke, R.H.; Evans, Y.-Y.; Baker, S.; Simpson, M.; Thompson, T.-A. A Miseducation: Perspectives on Sexuality Education from Black Women in the US South. Int. J. Environ. Res. Public Health 2024, 21, 1516. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph21111516
Astatke RH, Evans Y-Y, Baker S, Simpson M, Thompson T-A. A Miseducation: Perspectives on Sexuality Education from Black Women in the US South. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health. 2024; 21(11):1516. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph21111516
Chicago/Turabian StyleAstatke, Rebecca Hailu, Yves-Yvette Evans, Stephanie Baker, Monica Simpson, and Terri-Ann Thompson. 2024. "A Miseducation: Perspectives on Sexuality Education from Black Women in the US South" International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health 21, no. 11: 1516. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph21111516
APA StyleAstatke, R. H., Evans, Y. -Y., Baker, S., Simpson, M., & Thompson, T. -A. (2024). A Miseducation: Perspectives on Sexuality Education from Black Women in the US South. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 21(11), 1516. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph21111516