Perceptions and Experiences of Adult Children of Parents and Carers with Alcohol-Related Problems in Botswana: The Coexistence of Resilience and Resemblance
Abstract
:1. Introduction
1.1. Resilience as a Theoretical Framework
1.2. Context of Adult Children of Parents and Carers with Alcohol-Related Problems
2. Materials and Methods
2.1. Sample Selection and Setting of the Context
2.2. Data Analysis
3. Findings
3.1. Familial Practices
3.1.1. Severity of Alcohol-Related Problems
3.1.2. Adverse Family Environment
I would spend my time stressing out and worrying about my family because we are poor and not like other families next to us. It stresses me that we do not have a habitable structure at home, while we look up to my older brother and sister as our parents, who are also into drinking.
My brothers would come back drunk at night and knock on windows and doors and make noise that threatened to beat us up if we did not open the doors for them. We would run to the neighbours’ house, afraid of threats, and seek help... My brother’s alcoholism affected my school performance. I would see my grades get worse.
My mother’s uncle, whom we lived with, was a drunkard, and he used to harass everyone. When he found us sleeping, he would open the doors looking for food, forgetting that he had taken the food and sold it. He used to receive food hampers as a needy person.
My mother’s uncle once went away for about two weeks without anyone knowing where he was. It was very late when he came, and his wife was fast asleep. The wife did not speak to him. He then started to fight her and stabbed and stabbed his wife. Currently, the wife’s hand is not working well. In addition, the wife has a large scar on her forehead. The wife used to be beaten for no reason.
I had a traumatic childhood experience in which a person at night came into the house after my drunk brother left the house open, then a person tried to rape us. My brother came in, left the living room door unlocked, and we slept in the next room. We were in deep sleep when a man came into our room and slowly pulled blankets from us; when we screamed, the person ran away. We then went to our neighbours’ house, who believed that the culprit could have been one of the drunkards from the liquor store in the neighbourhood.
My mother fell ill for over three to six months, and I was the only one who could care for her as my father had moved from home, living his best life elsewhere. My father migrated to Gaborone, the capital city, where he lived his best life with other women while I cared for my sick mother. I went to a boarding school, and my mother used to struggle to take good care of me while I had two parents who could have both contributed to taking care of me.
3.2. Relations with Alcohol
3.2.1. Normalising Alcohol Misuse
I am an eventful drinker who can drink until I get drunk. I drink Savanna (ciders). I can drink from December 23 to January 3 next year without taking a break. I started drinking at university when I was living with a drunk person (my boyfriend).
I started to experiment with drinking alcohol during the previous year (peer pressure). I was embarrassed when I was told what I was doing when I was drunk. My younger siblings the next day told me that I was talking too much and that I had slept on the road. Nevertheless, I still want to try to take two bottles of beer next Christmas season.
3.2.2. Alcohol Misuse by Significant Others
3.3. Protective Factors
3.3.1. Resources for Adult Children of Parents and Carers with Alcohol-Related Problems and Their Alcohol-Misusing Parents/Carers
3.3.2. Coping Strategies
I almost killed myself. That is how I changed. I changed the day I called out to God. I had locked myself in the room, and I was crying. I was crying like a man without making any sound, just tears that rolled down my cheeks. I asked God to help me if you were there because I always saw my mother calling out to you. During that prayer time, I started to feel like I was being helped.
3.3.3. Mentorship
3.3.4. Available Help
4. Discussion
4.1. Vulnerability
4.2. Resilience
4.3. Resemblance
5. Conclusions
Supplementary Materials
Author Contributions
Funding
Institutional Review Board Statement
Informed Consent Statement
Data Availability Statement
Conflicts of Interest
References
- Ajayi, Adeyinka Theresa, and Lateef Oluwafemi Buhari. 2014. Methods of conflict resolution in African traditional society. African Research Review 8: 138–57. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Ashby, Jeffrey S., Joseph D. Mangine, and Robert B. Slaney. 1995. An investigation of perfectionism in a university sample of adult children of alcoholics. Journal of College Student Development 36: 452–56. [Google Scholar]
- Attride-Stirling, Jennifer. 2001. Thematic networks: An analytic tool for qualitative research. Qualitative Research 1: 385–405. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Bickelhaupt, Sarah E., Brenda J. Lohman, and Tricia K. Neppl. 2021. The influence of parental alcoholism on parent–adolescent relationships from adolescence into emerging adulthood: A qualitative inquiry. Emerging Adulthood 9: 117–31. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Black, Claudia. 1979. Children of alcoholics. Alcohol, Health and Research World 4: 23–27. [Google Scholar]
- Botswana Government Gazette. 2009. Children’s Act 2009. Gaborone: Botswana Government Press. [Google Scholar]
- Braun, Virginia, and Victoria Clarke. 2006. Using thematic analysis in psychology. Qualitative Research in Psychology 3: 77–101. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Cloete, Lizahn G., and Elelwani L. Ramugondo. 2015. ‘I Drink’: Mothers’ alcohol consumption as both individualised and imposed occupation. South African Journal of Occupational Therapy 45: 34–40. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Creswell, John W., and Cheryl N. Poth. 2016. Qualitative Inquiry and Research Design: Choosing among Five Approaches. California: Sage Publications. [Google Scholar]
- DiClemente, Carlo C. 2018. Addiction and Change: How Addictions Develop and Addicted People Recover. New York: Guilford Publications. [Google Scholar]
- Dumont, Karin McPeak. 2009. God’s Shield: The Relationship between God Attachment, Relationship Satisfaction, and Adult Child of an Alcoholic (ACOA) Status in a Sample of Evangelical Graduate Counseling Students. Journal of Psychology and Christianity 31: 51–66. [Google Scholar]
- Hagström, Anneli Silvén. 2019. Childhood narratives about the experience of growing up with alcoholic parents. Nordic Studies on Alcohol and Drugs 36: 299–301. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Hall, Cathy W., and Raymond E. Webster. 2007. Multiple stressors and adjustment among adult children of alcoholics. Addiction Research & Theory 15: 425–34. [Google Scholar]
- Harter, Stephanie Lewis. 2000. Psychosocial adjustment of adult children of alcoholics: A review of the recent empirical literature. Clinical Psychology Review 20: 311–37. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef] [PubMed]
- Haverfield, Marie C., and Jennifer A. Theiss. 2016. Parent’s alcoholism severity and family topic avoidance about alcohol as predictors of perceived stigma among adult children of alcoholics: Implications for emotional and psychological resilience. Health Communication 31: 606–16. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef] [PubMed]
- Hebbani, Sudharshan, Johnson Pradeep Ruben, Sumithra S. Selvam, and Krishnamachari Srinivasan. 2018. Influence of socio-cultural factors on the emotional problems among college going young-adult children of parents with alcoholism: A study from south India. Asian Journal of Psychiatry 37: 26–31. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef] [PubMed]
- Jose, Justin P., and Shanuga J. Cherayi. 2020. Effect of parental alcohol abuse severity and child abuse and neglect on child behavioural disorders in Kerala. Child Abuse & Neglect 107: 104608. [Google Scholar]
- Kanyua, Mutembei Rose, Dr Mugo, and W. Juliet. 2018. Influence of parents’ alcohol and drug abuse on school participation of lower-primary schools pupils in Meru south sub-county, Kenya. Journal of Humanities and Social Sciences 23: 29–35. [Google Scholar]
- Kaya, Ebru, Sibel Erduran, Busra Aksoz, and Selin Akgun. 2019. Reconceptualised family resemblance approach to nature of science in pre-service science teacher education. International Journal of Science Education 41: 21–47. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Kim, Hee Kyung. 2023. Process of building resilience in adult children of alcoholics: A grounded theory approach. Journal of Psychosocial Nursing and Mental Health Services 61: 31–39. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Leung, Doris Y. L., Athena C. Y. Chan, and Grace W. K. Ho. 2022. Resilience of emerging adults after adverse childhood experiences: A qualitative systematic review. Trauma, Violence, & Abuse 23: 163–81. [Google Scholar]
- Madigele, Tshenolo Jennifer. 2022. Interfaith Collaboration, Sexual Diversity and Development in Botswana. In Interfaith Networks and Development: Case Studies from Africa. Cham: Palgrave Macmillan, pp. 149–72. [Google Scholar]
- Meyer, Michael G., Mary A. Toborg, Sharon A. Denham, and Mary J. Mande. 2008. Cultural perspectives concerning adolescent use of tobacco and alcohol in the Appalachian mountain region. The Journal of Rural Health 24: 67–74. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Mhaka-Mutepfa, Magen, and Tapologo Maundeni. 2019. The role of faith (spirituality/religion) in resilience in sub-saharan African children. The International Journal of Community and Social Development 1: 211–33. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Molamu, Louis. 1989. Alcohol in Botswana: A historical overview. Contemporary Drug Problems 16: 3–42. [Google Scholar]
- Mushonga, Simbai, and Adrian Van Breda. 2021. Nonhuman systems as a source of interactional resilience among university students raised by alcohol-abusing caregivers in Lesotho. Social Work/Maatskaplike Werk 57: 425–42. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Oduma-Aboh, Solomon Ochepa, James Bako Danjuma Tella, and Ochoga Edwin Ochoga. 2019. Rethinking Agila traditional methods of conflict resolution and the need to institutionalize indigenous methods of conflict resolution in Nigeria. Igwebuike: An African Journal of Arts and Humanities 4: 104–17. [Google Scholar]
- Olmos-Vega, Francisco. M., Renée E. Stalmeijer, Lara Varpio, and Renate Kahlke. 2023. A practical guide to reflexivity in qualitative research: AMEE Guide No. 149. Medical Teacher 45: 241–51. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef] [PubMed]
- Omkarappa, Dayananda Bittenahalli, and Sreevani Rentala. 2019. Anxiety, depression, self-esteem among children of alcoholic and nonalcoholic parents. Journal of Family Medicine and Primary Care 8: 604–9. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef] [PubMed]
- Ossola, Paolo, Maria Carla Gerra, Maria Lidia Gerra, Giulia Milano, Marta Zatti, Valeria Zavan, Riccardo Volpi, Carlos Marchesi, Claudia Donnini, Gilberto Gerra, and et al. 2021. Alcohol use disorders among adult children of alcoholics (ACOAs): Gene-environment resilience factors. Progress in Neuro-Psychopharmacology and Biological Psychiatry 108: 110167. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Park, Sihyun, and Karen G. Schepp. 2018. A theoretical model of resilience capacity: Drawn from the words of adult children of alcoholics. Nursing Forum 53: 314–23. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef] [PubMed]
- Peeters, Margot, Ina Koning, Karin Monshouwer, Wilma A. M. Vollebergh, and Reinout W. Wiers. 2016. Context effects of alcohol availability at home: Implicit alcohol associations and the prediction of adolescents’ drinking behavior. Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs 77: 749–56. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef] [PubMed]
- Pisinger, Veronica S. C., Keith Hawton, and Janne S. Tolstrup. 2018. Self-injury and suicide behavior among young people with perceived parental alcohol problems in Denmark: A school-based survey. European Child & Adolescent Psychiatry 27: 201–8. [Google Scholar]
- Pittman, Delishia M., Alicia A. Quayson, Cassandra Riedy Rush, and Melanie L. Minges. 2022. Revisiting resilience: Examining the relationships between stress, social support, and drinking behavior among black college students with parental substance use disorder histories. Journal of Ethnicity in Substance Abuse 21: 90–111. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Prosek, Elizabeth A., and Donna M. Gibson. 2021. Promoting rigorous research by examining lived experiences: A review of four qualitative traditions. Journal of Counseling & Development 99: 167–77. [Google Scholar]
- Qutoshi, Sadruddin Bahadur. 2018. Phenomenology: A philosophy and method of inquiry. Journal of Education and Educational Development 5: 215–22. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Redlin, S., and J. Borchardt. 2019. A comparison of resiliency in adult children of parents with alcohol-related problems versus adult children of non-parents with alcohol-related problems. Morden Psychological Studies 24: 1. [Google Scholar]
- Sebeelo, B. Tebogo, and Linda Belgrave. 2021. Navigating the drinking self: A qualitative study of beer consumption among the working poor in Botswana. Qualitative Report 26: 186–203. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Sinkamba, Refilwe P. 2015. Alcohol abuse and interventions strategies in Botswana and China: A preliminary study. PULA: Botswana Journal of African Studies 27: 157–70. [Google Scholar]
- Theron, Linda C., and Linda Liebenberg. 2015. Understanding cultural contexts and their relationship to resilience processes. In Youth Resilience and Culture: Commonalities and Complexities. New York: Springer Science & Business Media, pp. 23–36. [Google Scholar]
- Theron, Linda C., Diane Levine, and Michael Ungar. 2021. African emerging adult resilience: Insights from a sample of township youth. Emerging Adulthood 9: 360–71. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Ungar, Michael. 2011. The Social Ecology of Resilience: A Handbook of Theory and Practice. New York: Springer Science & Business Media. [Google Scholar]
- Ungar, Michael. 2013. Resilience, trauma, context, and culture. Trauma, Violence, & Abuse 14: 255–66. [Google Scholar]
- Van Manen, Max. 2017. Phenomenology in its original sense. Qualitative Health Research 27: 810–25. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- Van Manen, Max. 2023. Phenomenology of Practice: Meaning-Giving Methods in Phenomenological Research and Writing. New York: Routledge. [Google Scholar]
- Westman, Jeanette, Nitya Jayaram-Lindström, Kimberly Kane, Johan Franck, and Mika Gissler. 2022. Mortality in adult children of parents with alcohol use disorder: A nationwide register study. European Journal of Epidemiology 37: 815–26. [Google Scholar] [CrossRef]
- World Health Organization (WHO). 2019. Global Status Report on Alcohol and Health 2018. Geneva: World Health Organization. [Google Scholar]
- World Health Organization (WHO). 2024. Global Status Report on Alcohol and Health and Treatment of Substance Use Disorders. Geneva: World Health Organization. [Google Scholar]
Participant | Age | Gender | Alcohol-Misusing Parent or Carer | Participant’s Current Position |
---|---|---|---|---|
1 | 25 | Female | Sister | University student |
2 | 24 | Female | Brother | University student |
3 | 23 | Female | Father | University student |
4 | 24 | Female | Aunt | University student |
5 | 26 | Female | Mother’s uncle | University student |
6 | 40 | Female | Father | Executive Assistant |
7 | 35 | Male | Father and brothers | Pastor |
Codes | Basic Themes | Organising Themes | Global Themes |
---|---|---|---|
Alcohol misuse in a nuclear family Alcohol misuse among siblings Alcohol misuse in extended family Alcohol misuse among participants from a young age | Severity of alcohol-related problems | Family systems | Familial practices |
Alcohol contributed to high levels of stress within the family Alcohol-misusing parents disturb children’s sleep Alcohol-misusing parents or carers sold household items to buy alcohol The parent exchanged social security food for alcohol Experienced violence and abuse | Adverse family environment | ||
Adult child drinks alcohol like their parent Reason for current drinking Adult child used to misuse alcohol like their parents but quit Adult child does not drink alcohol | Normalising alcohol misuse | Relations with alcohol | |
Have a partner misusing alcohol Insecure around alcohol-misusing people Anger toward alcohol-misusing parent Relate well with alcohol-misusing people Alcohol-misusing patients Triggers childhood memories Protect your children against exposure to alcohol | Alcohol misuse by significant others | ||
Kept a journal Focused on schoolwork Church was helpful Neighbours were helpful Teacher was helpful Social workers were helpful Extended family members are helpful Avoided alcohol misuse environments Experience influenced career choice | Coping strategies | Resources for adult children of parents with alcohol-related problems and their alcohol-misusing parents/carers | Protective factors |
Had role model Had no role model | Mentorship | ||
There were resources to help alcohol-misusing member No resources to help alcohol-misusing member Current resources for help exist Current resources exist, but are not used | Available help |
Disclaimer/Publisher’s Note: The statements, opinions and data contained in all publications are solely those of the individual author(s) and contributor(s) and not of MDPI and/or the editor(s). MDPI and/or the editor(s) disclaim responsibility for any injury to people or property resulting from any ideas, methods, instructions or products referred to in the content. |
© 2024 by the authors. Licensee MDPI, Basel, Switzerland. This article is an open access article distributed under the terms and conditions of the Creative Commons Attribution (CC BY) license (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/).
Share and Cite
Jeremiah, R.P.; Shehu, O.M.; Sam, D.L.; Katisi, M. Perceptions and Experiences of Adult Children of Parents and Carers with Alcohol-Related Problems in Botswana: The Coexistence of Resilience and Resemblance. Soc. Sci. 2024, 13, 396. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci13080396
Jeremiah RP, Shehu OM, Sam DL, Katisi M. Perceptions and Experiences of Adult Children of Parents and Carers with Alcohol-Related Problems in Botswana: The Coexistence of Resilience and Resemblance. Social Sciences. 2024; 13(8):396. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci13080396
Chicago/Turabian StyleJeremiah, Refilwe Precious, Odireleng Mildred Shehu, David Lackland Sam, and Masego Katisi. 2024. "Perceptions and Experiences of Adult Children of Parents and Carers with Alcohol-Related Problems in Botswana: The Coexistence of Resilience and Resemblance" Social Sciences 13, no. 8: 396. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci13080396
APA StyleJeremiah, R. P., Shehu, O. M., Sam, D. L., & Katisi, M. (2024). Perceptions and Experiences of Adult Children of Parents and Carers with Alcohol-Related Problems in Botswana: The Coexistence of Resilience and Resemblance. Social Sciences, 13(8), 396. https://doi.org/10.3390/socsci13080396